Trouble in Paradise

Many of the people I know have struggles in their relationships. When things are going great I'm envious of them. When they are going through their hardships, I'm pretty sure they wish they were me. 
How many people are stuck. How many people are afraid to leave. How many people look first before they leave.
I've met women that are involved and yet they are out looking. I suppose it doesn't bother me. It bother's me when they don't come clean with me. When they don't give me the choice.

I'm something else :)

LOL... this is my quote of December. As I sit in my hotel room in Chicago, waiting til next week to celebrate another awesome year alive. As I think about Paris, definitely one of my all time favourite places (if not most), I wonder what real romance and real love feel like. I have only experienced Paris in the worst of times. Yet Paris is always spectacular. It's something else. Nothing makes Paris suck. It just is awesome all the time. At least to me. So I will go, celebrate the day I was born and wonder what the future holds for a guy that wants to stop dating, but the world won't let me...

It's getting to the point...

Where I'm no fun anymore...

One of my favourite songs. I think there are lots of people in this situation. It makes me sad to think that things end. And when we know they are ending it sucks even more. Because despite knowing and wanting and needing it to end it hurts.

I responded to a facebook post

We never know where life takes us or what we are supposed to do or who the people that help us get there. It just sucks sometimes when things can't work and we really want them to work. Trying to hard doesn't work I suppose. But why is it everyone says you have to want it to get it! Hmmmmm...

I read my own blog

Because I forget what I think and what I have to say. If you haven't read my earliest posts I'd suggest you do!

i don't know everything

but I can certainly figure things out quickly!

The recent Tiger Woods news brought up a sore point with me. Here's a guy who cheated (allegedly). Why is it the guy takes the fall? What happened to drive him there?

Speaking for myself, when I have been with a woman in a relationship I have never needed to cheat. My needs were being met at home. BUT! I will add this - when things were bad at home and I was refused what I needed, I started to feel rejected and unloved. It was the first time I fully understood the cheating man's mind. I had thoughts and feelings that I was undesirable. I felt like sh-t. I started to notice other women. Then I started thinking that "since I am not getting it at home..."

Now there's lots more here, I acknowledge that. Ultimately, in a situation like that there is two choices both people have to make. Either the break up and move on without hating one another or they "allow" the actions by ignoring them.

It's about me I suppose

I've said it many times, but I guess I don't listen. I'm not easy to please. I must be hard to get along with or I must seem like the type of guy that is easily forgettable.

I've had the honour of meeting and knowing some of the most amazing women. Not just physically beautiful, but also smart, intelligent women. Things never seem to go well though. Strangely, none of them let go of the connection to me. For some reason they (and yes, more than one) never stop staying in contact. Maybe I'm too friendly. Maybe I'm the respectable type. Maybe I just an a--hole.