Players

All of us play parts at different times throughout our relationships. Often times, the beginning of a relationship is largely a series of false, controlled impressions designed to achieve a desired result: attract the other person. It's no wonder that so many relationships fail after a period of time. Funny enough, many of us have no interest in the "real" person initially. We all have expectations that we project onto others. Everyone is afraid to be themselves. 

Insecurities

History, paranoia, our own weaknesses and transgressions form our insecurities. "The thief never trusts anyone else" applies. I've often wondered why people are so insecure in their relationships. Maybe for good reason. But I wonder, do they manifest that which they fear most. People who fear infidelity - do they drive their partner to that? In that case, both parties have culpability.

Can't decide

There are women I have slept with in the past and every now and then I have a craving for them. It's really strange I think. It's like craving a certain cuisine or being "in the mood for..."

Yes, I'm comparing women to food. There's much in common between the two :) You can figure that out for yourself.