We try so hard to impress the person we're interested in. We concoct elaborate outings and evenings, just to spend a little time with that other person. We make them feel so special. They think we're so interesting. Then things progress - a relationship ensues...
Then what? Then we start seeing each other several times a months, to a couple times a week to every day. Then both parties really get to see each other in their respective states. Life isn't an ongoing outing. Life isn't a party every day. Most of the time, life is about living. It includes the boring stuff.
Seems to me that those of us who bounce around from person to person are really living in a fantasy world. A world where every day and every night and every weekend is about doing "something." Doing "nothing" is still something. New is exciting, I agree. But, there's something to be said for the known.
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