Having actually made a connection with three different women in my lifetime (so far, I expect to find it again) I can speak from both perspectives.
Finding someone that one connects with on multiple levels - emotional, physical, intellectual and spiritual - is unlike anything else. For instance, of the women that have passed through my life, I have forgotten some, miss others and some remain friends, BUT I could never just sit and do NOTHING with them. When I was in a relationship where I could really be me, not expected to have something funny or brilliant to say, not expected to look perfect all the time (although I do :P), it was a really liberating feeling. I didn't feel like I had to run. I wanted to see them, I wanted to spend more time with them.
I suppose as a single person that's what I'm still looking for.
The other thing I miss the most is the sense of belonging and being part of a "micro" community.
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